Female Sh*t Tests (TIER LIST)

About this video

• Video Title: Female Sh*t Tests (TIER LIST)
• Channel: YBCTooCold
• Speakers: YBCTooCold
• Duration: 00:31:36

Overview

This video discusses and categorizes "shit tests" that women allegedly use on men. The speaker explains two main types of tests: congruence tests (testing confidence and masculinity) and interest tests (assessing emotional investment and a man's value). He then proceeds to rank various behaviors and statements as tests, categorizing them by difficulty to pass and whether they are genuine tests or simply disrespect.

Key takeaways

• Types of Tests: Tests are broadly categorized into congruence tests (confidence, masculinity, identity) and interest tests (emotional investment, value comparison).
• Test Difficulty: Tests are ranked by difficulty, from "Rookie" to "Final Boss," with some behaviors categorized as pure disrespect rather than tests.
• Pulling Away: A common test where a woman withdraws to see if a man will over-pursue or become desperate. The advice is to do nothing and go about your life.
• Being Dry: When a woman gives short, unengaging responses. The advice is to match her dryness rather than overcompensate.
• Holding Her Purse: Considered a "Final Boss" test designed to "beta-tize" a man into doing favors. The recommended response is to refuse unless there's a genuine inability to hold it herself.
• Insulting You: Can be a test to gauge insecurity or pure disrespect. Responses can include agree-and-amplify, disagree outrageously, or ignore.
• Disagreeing With You: A test to see if a man will change his opinions to match hers. The advice is to stand firm on beliefs and values.
• Apology Fishing: Manipulating a man into apologizing for something petty to gauge his weakness. The advice is not to apologize if you've done nothing wrong.
• Arguing With You: Considered a "Final Boss" test that men should avoid, as it signals equality rather than authority, which women don't respect.
• "Not Hooking Up Tonight": A test to see if a man is desperate for sex. The advice is to not care and proceed as if the statement wasn't made.
• "I Bet You Do This With All Other Girls": A test to see if a man will get defensive. The advice is to keep it mysterious and playful, not directly confirming or denying.
• "I Only Date Guys Who...": A verbal disqualification test. The advice is to remain relaxed and unbothered, not to try and compensate.
• Trying to Take Control of the Frame: A test where a woman leads the conversation and pace. The advice is to take back control by answering at your own pace and tempo.
• Showing Up Late: Generally considered pure disrespect, not a test, unless it's a minor delay where playful confrontation might be acceptable.
• Talking About Another Guy: Mostly disrespect, but can be a jealousy test if done once or twice. If it's in a "friend-zoned" way, it's pure friend-zoning.
• Jealousy Tests: Specifically designed to make a man jealous. Options include faking jealousy playfully or not showing any jealousy at all.
• Gradually Walking Away Mid-Cold Approach: A body language test. The advice is to stand your ground and continue talking, which may cause her to return.
• Breaking Up With You Out of Nowhere: A "Final Boss" test to gauge a man's emotional reaction and level of interest. The advice is not to reach out and let her come back.
• Small D Energy: Similar to an insult, with advice to agree-and-amplify, disagree outrageously, or dismiss it.
• "You're Not My Type": Similar to "I only date guys who," the advice is to relax, be yourself, and not try to be her type.
• Going on Her Phone Too Long: Pure disrespect, not a test. The advice is to leave if she shows disrespect.
• "A Real Man Would...": A manipulation tactic to get a man to do what benefits her. The advice is not to do the thing if it doesn't align with your values.
• "Spend More Time With Me": A test that can lead to a man becoming "beta-tized." The advice is to prioritize your purpose and goals, and focus on quality over quantity of time.
• Posting on Her Story While You're Still on Delivered: Pure disrespect, not a test, indicating she's actively trolling.
• "I'm Busy": Usually means she doesn't want you, unless she attempts to reschedule.
• "Have a Boyfriend": Can be a test to see if you'll be deterred by an obstacle, but often genuinely means no. If she was flirting beforehand, pushing slightly might be an option.