This video details Liz's experience of being cheated on by her then-fiancé, Landon, while four months pregnant. She discusses the emotional impact, her healing process involving therapy, and reflections on past relationships, highlighting recurring patterns and red flags she ignored. The video also explores themes of intuition, trauma, codependency, and the challenges faced by successful women in dating.
Ignoring Intuition: Liz emphasizes the importance of trusting one's intuition, sharing how ignoring her gut feeling in past relationships led to negative consequences. She learned to value and act upon her instincts in this situation.
Trauma and Healing: The betrayal trauma experienced is discussed alongside the importance of therapy for healing. Liz promotes BetterHelp as a resource for accessible mental health support.
Red Flags and Patterns: Liz identifies recurring red flags in her relationships: controlling behavior, jealousy, and a need for constant validation from her partners, which she links to childhood trauma and insecure attachment styles.
Financial Dynamics in Relationships: Liz notes a pattern in her relationships where financial success led to relationship issues, suggesting that some men struggle with a successful woman's independence.
The Role of Childhood Trauma: Liz connects her relationship patterns to her childhood experiences, highlighting the impact of a traumatic upbringing and lack of a father figure on her adult relationships and perception of love.
