About this video

• Video Title: HOW TO MAKE ANYONE OBSESSED WITH YOU & fall in love ❤️ (psychology)
• Channel: simonesquared
• Speakers: Simone (implied, as the channel owner and speaker)
• Duration: 16:50

Overview

This video by Simone explores the psychological and spiritual aspects of making someone fall in love with you, differentiating between infatuation, obsession, and genuine love. It offers practical advice on building attraction, fostering emotional intimacy, and maintaining a healthy energetic field to attract the right partner. The video also touches upon attachment styles and their impact on relationships, recommending therapy as a tool for self-improvement.

Key takeaways

• Proximity and Time: You can fall in love with anyone if you have proximity and spend time with them, highlighting the importance of choosing a partner wisely.
• Obsession vs. Love: Obsession is characterized as infatuation and emotional magnetism, whereas true love is built on trust, understanding, and commitment.
• Energetic Vortex: To attract someone, focus on your own energy and life, rather than obsessing over others, creating a sense of mystery and scarcity.
• Attachment Styles: Anxious attachment can lead to obsession, while avoidant attachment can make someone seem more desirable due to perceived distance. A secure attachment style is key for healthy relationships.
• Emotional Highs and Misattribution: Creating emotional highs and adrenaline rushes can lead someone to mistakenly associate those feelings with liking you.
• Oxytocin and Bonding: Oxytocin, the bonding hormone, is triggered by eye contact, deep conversations, physical touch, and vulnerability.
• The Power of Vulnerability: Sharing deep parts of yourself and making someone feel safe and seen can accelerate the process of falling in love.
• Feminine Duality: The feminine energy is magnetic due to its duality, softness, and wildness, making authenticity and unpredictability attractive.
• Confidence and Mate Value: Confidence, often a result of focusing on oneself, signals higher mate value and is attractive to others.
• Creating Associations: Embedding yourself in someone's happy memories and creating shared experiences stimulates positive emotions and keeps you on their mind.
• Strategic Psychological Techniques: Mirroring, creating emotional highs, deep conversations, and strategic physical touch can build trust and attraction.
• Intermittent Reinforcement: Toxic behaviors like being "hot and cold" can create addiction through intermittent reinforcement, a tactic often used to manipulate.

To avoid becoming obsessed with someone, especially if you have an anxious attachment style, the video suggests two main strategies:

1. Master your emotions and heal your attachment style: This involves actively working on managing your emotional responses and addressing the root causes of your attachment patterns.
2. Be in your own energetic vortex: This means pulling your energy back into yourself, stopping the obsession over other people, and focusing on benefiting your own life. Instead of giving your attention to things that don't serve you, like endlessly scrolling or waiting for messages, you should pour love and energy into yourself and your own life. This creates distance, mystery, and scarcity, making you more magnetic.

The video also emphasizes the importance of investing in therapy to help navigate these issues and develop tools to manage emotions.

Want to make someone fall for you? ❤️ This psychology breakdown reveals how to build attraction, foster connection, and avoid obsession. Learn to harness your energy, create magnetic mystery & understand attachment styles. Plus, discover key tips to spark that genuine love! #Psychology #DatingTips #Love #Attraction #Relationships

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