JUST SAY THESE 6 WORDS AND YOU’LL ATTRACT ANYONE | Stoicism

About this video

• Video Title: JUST SAY THESE 6 WORDS AND YOU’LL ATTRACT ANYONE | Stoicism
• Channel: Stoic Training
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• Duration: 00:26:51

Overview

This video discusses six communication principles inspired by Stoicism, presented as specific phrases and concepts that can enhance a person's attractiveness and the impact of their words. The core message is that true attraction comes from authentic character and presence, not from performing or adding more to conversations. The video emphasizes subtraction – removing unnecessary words, fear of silence, and overcommitment – as a key to making one's communication more meaningful and magnetic.

Key takeaways

• "Tell me more about that": This phrase fosters genuine curiosity and makes others feel heard, encouraging deeper sharing and connection rather than redirecting the conversation.
• "I don't know": Admitting ignorance confidently shows honesty and builds trust, contrasting with the insecurity conveyed by faking knowledge. True confidence lies in acknowledging the limits of one's knowledge.
• "That sounds difficult": This phrase validates another person's struggle without immediately offering solutions, creating space for them to process their feelings and find their own way forward.
• Silence: Comfortable silence can create weight and importance around one's words, encourage others to reveal themselves, and signal presence and thoughtfulness.
• "I appreciate you": This statement acknowledges a person's character and being, not just their actions, fostering deeper loyalty and making others feel truly seen.
• "No": Setting boundaries by saying "no" clearly and without apology protects one's time and energy, making their "yes" more valuable and attracting people who respect their boundaries.