Ok You’re Handsome... But What Now?

About this Video

• Video Title: Ok You’re Handsome... But What Now?
• Channel: Austin Dunham Dating
• Speakers: Austin Dunham
• Duration: 00:09:09

Introduction

This video addresses the challenges faced by attractive men in dating. The speaker, Austin Dunham, argues that while enhancing one's appearance is crucial, it's only the first step. He emphasizes the importance of a strong online marketing strategy to fully leverage one's attractiveness and achieve dating success.

Key Takeaways

• Looks are important, but not sufficient: While improving one's appearance (looks-maxing) increases confidence and dating opportunities, it's not enough for long-term dating success.
• Online marketing is key: Attractive men need to learn how to effectively "market" themselves online, through platforms like Instagram and dating apps, to maximize their attractiveness. This involves organic posting and potentially paid advertising.
• Dating app strategy: Dating apps are considered a form of paid advertising, where the individual is the product.
• Focus on holistic improvement: Beyond looks, men should identify and improve other aspects of their dating game, including communication, setting dates, physical escalation, and maintaining relationships. A self-audit helps identify areas for improvement.
• Diminishing returns of looks-maxing: After a certain point, further improvements in appearance yield minimal additional dating benefits. The focus should shift to other personal skills and strategies.