Успешные свидания 2021. О чем говорить на свидании. Лекция 2

About this video

• Video Title: Успешные свидания 2021. О чем говорить на свидании. Лекция 2
• Channel: Максим Дивертито
• Speakers: Максим Дивертито
• Duration: 1:00:53

Overview

This lecture focuses on developing the skill of engaging conversation with women on dates. The speaker, Maxim Divertito, emphasizes the importance of being able to talk about various topics for an extended period and provides practical exercises to improve this ability, aiming to help viewers achieve better results in their dating lives.

Key takeaways

• The Importance of Conversation: The ability to hold a conversation comfortably, easily, and on the same wavelength as your date is crucial for the success of a romantic connection.
• Developing Conversational Skills: A key skill is the ability to talk about a single topic for several minutes without significant pauses or running out of things to say. This can be practiced by recording yourself discussing various subjects for at least five minutes.
• Universal Conversation Topics: The lecture highlights common and effective topics for conversation, such as travel, childhood memories, work (briefly and engagingly), personal style, entertainment (movies, series), and hobbies.
• Avoiding Taboo and Boring Topics: The speaker advises against discussing ex-partners, excessive details about personal finances, or overly complex or negative subjects that might make the date uncomfortable or disengage.
• Date Duration and Pacing: For a first date, a duration of at least 1.5 hours is recommended to allow for sufficient conversation, connection building, and a positive impression. Shorter dates often feel insufficient, while excessively long ones can lead to a decline in energy and interest.